HOW ARE YOU? *** HOW ARE YOU? ***
HOW ARE YOU? *** HOW ARE YOU? ***

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It's because they are struggling

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What are the young people saying to you here?

Make a note of what they are telling you, or asking you to do, in your own words

Reflect

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There are many, varied things that cause young people to self-harm

Young people often experience adults as being more interested in the act of self-harm than the reasons for their distress

Respond

What can you do?

Respond

What can you do?

I DO THIS

I DO THIS

I WANT TO TRY THIS

I WANT TO TRY THIS

Share the task of understanding the reasons for the distress: “let’s work this out together”

Professional curiosity about the person, more than the self-harm

“How are things?”

“How are you feeling?”

“What do you need?”